Somebody told me that I’ve become boring after marriage. The premise — I’ve stopped writing on my blog; rather stopped writing longer and maybe more thought provoking posts. Does that mean that I’ve become boring?
I don’t think so! I don’t feel that much talked about ‘change’ after marriage. My life has essentially been the same. Surely we’ve made it more comfortable for us, at least materially… actually even emotionally and physically! So if marriage led to comfort in my life and the end result is ‘boring’, then does it mean that comforts bring boredom to life?
Wow that’s some analysis. Probably yes. Probably no. When your life is comfortable probably the incentive of being exciting is lost. Probably. But another thought is that when you’re comfortable, you can focus on just that — being exciting!
So why am I being perceived as boring post marriage. Well actually the person was joking, and I know that! But that little thought has opened up a pandora of thoughts. And yeah it seems like mission accomplished — a slightly more thought provocative post than the previous few!!
on Aug 23rd, 2006 at 11:08 am